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	<title>Comments on: In which I lament over how my Birthday Monies should be used</title>
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		<title>By: Audrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Audrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 22:17:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have always felt that birthday money and gift cards are to be used for special treats for yourself -- for things that you might not have gotten otherwise, were it not for the free money.

Also, the only reason I think I have any idea how to pronounce Sephora is based on how the store employees say it when they answer the phone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have always felt that birthday money and gift cards are to be used for special treats for yourself &#8212; for things that you might not have gotten otherwise, were it not for the free money.</p>
<p>Also, the only reason I think I have any idea how to pronounce Sephora is based on how the store employees say it when they answer the phone.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 16:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bit late to reply I know but this is on my mind too...

I used to get what I considered a LOT for Christmas and a decent gift at my birthday. It was only when I went to uni I realised most people get an awful lot more than me. To me it was frivolous (lol) especially as, being a poor student and theN equally poor care worker, I have spent my past few birthdays and Christmasses using my gift money to pay off my overdraft or buy much needed trousers (&#039;cos mine were too big/small or I needed a new pair for my new job!)

I recently had a birthday and received (from a mixture of family and friends) a total of £70. Having moved into a new flat I had told people if they were going to buy my presents they should be things I could use in my home. Pretty things I wouldn&#039;t necessarily buy but would enjoy - that to me was spoiling myself but to everyone else it wasn&#039;t enough. T paid for me to have my hair cut and bought me a new hairdryer and I felt so GUILTY because no one had ever spent that much on me before and usually I get my Aunty to cut my hair for free! I was going to add £30 to my birthday money to buy a new camera as mine broke over a year ago now and I miss it so much as when I have a camera I am the happiest girl in the world. Have I bought that camera?! Nope - I used my money to buy food :o(

All&#039;s not lost though... T is working on me and keeps reminding me I need to draw £100 out of my bank and actually buy that camera - no matter how poor I am I need to splash out once in a while, so he says. I feel quite excited by that... so I guess after all this rambling what I mean to say is - being someone who has often spent her birthday money on necessities I&#039;d suggest you DON&#039;T DO IT!!! How often do you get to spoil yourself?? You go get what you want and I&#039;ll go buy my camera - how&#039;s that sound?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bit late to reply I know but this is on my mind too&#8230;</p>
<p>I used to get what I considered a LOT for Christmas and a decent gift at my birthday. It was only when I went to uni I realised most people get an awful lot more than me. To me it was frivolous (lol) especially as, being a poor student and theN equally poor care worker, I have spent my past few birthdays and Christmasses using my gift money to pay off my overdraft or buy much needed trousers (&#8217;cos mine were too big/small or I needed a new pair for my new job!)</p>
<p>I recently had a birthday and received (from a mixture of family and friends) a total of £70. Having moved into a new flat I had told people if they were going to buy my presents they should be things I could use in my home. Pretty things I wouldn&#8217;t necessarily buy but would enjoy &#8211; that to me was spoiling myself but to everyone else it wasn&#8217;t enough. T paid for me to have my hair cut and bought me a new hairdryer and I felt so GUILTY because no one had ever spent that much on me before and usually I get my Aunty to cut my hair for free! I was going to add £30 to my birthday money to buy a new camera as mine broke over a year ago now and I miss it so much as when I have a camera I am the happiest girl in the world. Have I bought that camera?! Nope &#8211; I used my money to buy food <img src='http://www.holaisabel.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> (</p>
<p>All&#8217;s not lost though&#8230; T is working on me and keeps reminding me I need to draw £100 out of my bank and actually buy that camera &#8211; no matter how poor I am I need to splash out once in a while, so he says. I feel quite excited by that&#8230; so I guess after all this rambling what I mean to say is &#8211; being someone who has often spent her birthday money on necessities I&#8217;d suggest you DON&#8217;T DO IT!!! How often do you get to spoil yourself?? You go get what you want and I&#8217;ll go buy my camera &#8211; how&#8217;s that sound?!</p>
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		<title>By: judy</title>
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		<dc:creator>judy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 07:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel very strongly about this - birthday money is not to be spent for tampons, or vacuum cleaner bags, or replacement wallets.

birthday money shouldn&#039;t be used to replace things 

happy birthday</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel very strongly about this &#8211; birthday money is not to be spent for tampons, or vacuum cleaner bags, or replacement wallets.</p>
<p>birthday money shouldn&#8217;t be used to replace things </p>
<p>happy birthday</p>
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		<title>By: metalia</title>
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		<dc:creator>metalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 18:29:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait. It&#039;s NOT pronounced Seff-ORE-uh? Have I been saying it wrong this whole time? Halp.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wait. It&#8217;s NOT pronounced Seff-ORE-uh? Have I been saying it wrong this whole time? Halp.</p>
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		<title>By: Durga</title>
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		<dc:creator>Durga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 16:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We don&#039;t have Sephora here but I&#039;m glad we went to one in the US.
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Bday monies should be spent on things u really want unless u r broke/behind on your bills maybe then they take priority. But buying fun things for yourself is prolly what the giver intended with the monetary gift for a Birthday.
Let us know what u ended up buying....complete with pictures please</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We don&#8217;t have Sephora here but I&#8217;m glad we went to one in the US.<br />
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Bday monies should be spent on things u really want unless u r broke/behind on your bills maybe then they take priority. But buying fun things for yourself is prolly what the giver intended with the monetary gift for a Birthday.<br />
Let us know what u ended up buying&#8230;.complete with pictures please</p>
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